From the Taliban end, the nine rounds of secret peace talks held in Qatar for nearly a year didn’t at all look China Hanging vacuum bags like readying the country for peace. This is because it avoided playing a political hand in deference to the US wish to do nothing that might displease Islamabad. This would have been to formally conclude an agreement, and get Mr Ghani to endorse it — against his own wishes and the wishes of most Afghans. This is the crucial difference between the Taliban or Pakistan era, and present-day Afghanistan. Bomb blasts and complex assaults by the Taliban inside Afghanistan were the order of the day for the past two years.Just days before the projected signing, the Taliban took credit for two massive car bomb attacks in Kabul. 

This placed it on the same side as the Taliban and Pakistan.The US-Taliban deal is off for now, but the Americans can backtrack. The Taliban saw no need to win hearts and minds. He also revealed that secret preparations were on to separately host Taliban leaders and Afghan President Ashraf Ghani at Camp David near Washington this week. If Washington now gives whole-hearted backing to holding the Afghan presidential election due later this month, a new domestic Afghan dynamic in favour of republicanism can be rekindled.It was evident for some time that the US wanted to exit Afghanistan for domestic reasons, leaving behind a skeletal counter-terrorism force.It was evident for some time that the US wanted to exit Afghanistan for domestic reasons, leaving behind a skeletal counter-terrorism force.Yet, the Trump administration had gone along, doing peace talks in secret, for which the foundation was laid during the Obama administration. It regards as an American "puppet” any government in Afghanistan brought into being through an election process under the country’s post-Taliban constitution and given sanction by the Constitution Jirga. Many across the world, other than Pakistan, the Taliban’s Arab backers and Pakistan’s "iron friend” China, will breathe a sigh of relief. It was clear the Taliban will fill the vacuum as the Americans retreat. 

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The protagonist Kate, a spirited young woman, takes charge with father Duncan, to quell the growing panic on board.The island speeds away from the USA at breakneck speed and just when they are close to crashing into the Chinese mainland, the island again changes course.Will Kate and Duncan succeed in saving the masses and where do they all end up?Adrift is a thriller that travels into the realm of science fiction and also reflects the growing acceptance of interracial romance.Author Para H — or Paramasiviah Harshavardhana — is actually a shortened form of spiritual leader Swami Paramahansa Yogananda’s names, whom he follows. The book is the author’s "humble way of paying respect to him”.Coming back to the book, it makes for an interesting read largely because of its unique storyline, constantly developing narrative and in-depth technical and seismological knowledge to make the physical reshaping of the world, believable.The writing is also crisp and visual and seems like the perfect storyline for a 20th Century Fox film with booming Dolby soundtrack — the description of a massive land mass breaking and drifting away rapidly with all the advanced technologies in the world failing, grips the imagination.Adrift by Para H, Published by Zorba Books, Pp.232, Rs 224.But unlike a science fiction film, this adventure thriller probes the deeper questions of life – such as what does Indian philosophy have to do with the Americans’ struggle for survival?The title is also layered and is a reflection of the author’s observation of the world.Speaking about the symbolism in his book, the former graduate of IIT Madras and the President and CEO of TransCloud Networks in the US, said: "My personal view is that most people in world, in every culture, have lost their mooring. We are floating aimlessly in the ocean- adrift in some way."No wonder how accomplished or grounded you are, people are missing the deep feeling of well being from the inside. The title is a metaphor of the mind of everyone today.”For Mr Harshavardhana, 62, who has a PhD in Electrical Engineering from the University of Southern California, having grown up in India and lived in the US for a few decades, made him wonder what would happen if the two contrasting worlds collided.He said: "I just wanted to highlight the possibility that if such a thing happened, it could mean a significant change for the world."For example Southern California is the most advanced place on earth technologically. If you break it off, it will probably still rank in the top 10 in its industrial, economic and defence strengths."Imagine combine that with the best of spirituality. 

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In an episode of Rendevouz with Simi Garewal, Rekha once again spoke about her feelings for Amitabh — although this time she claimed it had been an entirely one-sided devotion, and no more or less than the devotion of millions of the Big B’s fans. Extreme reactionsWhile some exes choose to go the self-destructive route when a relationship ends (think Sanjay Dutt whose addiction issues escalated after then girlfriend Tina Munim left him for Rajesh Khanna), others vilify their former partners. Deepika Padukone too had a couple of catty missteps, both on a talk show, and both times with respect to her former flame Ranbir Kapoor. Om Puri may be among Indian cinema’s most gifted actors, but his highly acrimonious break-ups with both his first and second wives — Seema Kapoor and Nandita Puri, respectively — did not show him in the best possible light. 

A lot of people can’t deal with the trauma of breaking up and one needs wisdom and maturity to deal with such issues. He created a ruckus on the sets of Ash’s films Kuch Hanging vacuum storage bag Na Kaho and Chalte Chalte; by September 2002, the actress said in an interview with a leading daily, "Salman and I broke up last March, but he isn’t able to come to terms with it. His much publicised relationship and subsequent split with Aishwarya Rai was attended by allegations of abuse, harassment, and even a police complaint.What happens when a relationship ends, but one half of the couple isn’t able to move on Celebrity relationships are rife with examples of exes who’ve behaved in the worst possible ways Rumours of an affair between Rekha and Amitabh Bachchan have persisted for years.”. 

Later on, when you have gained some wisdom, you realise it was all for a good reason. Sanjay Khan-Zeenat Aman put bad behaviour by exes in another league altogether. Karthik Aryan (of Pyaar Ka Punchnama fame) recounted how a family friend wanted to be in a relationship with him. While rumours of an affair between the duo were fanned by their hit pairing in films like Do Anjaane, Ganga Ki Saugandh and reached a crescendo by the time they acted together in Silsila (the love triangle also featured Jaya Bachchan, in a case of reel life imitating real life), the after-effects have persisted for years. What was undeniable, however, was how uncomfortable he made Katrina when she appeared on an episode of his reality show Bigg Boss. While Amitabh Bachchan has not publicly addressed the reports of the "affair”, Rekha has alluded to it on a couple of occasions. But it all unravelled in an ugly fashion — with Sanjay physically attacking Zeenat in the lobby of a hotel. Indeed, literature and the arts, high culture and pop culture have made the idea of the forlorn, lovelorn ex — hanging onto fragments of their past relationship, trying desperately to woo back their former partner — seem like the romantic ideal. She was the one who liked me. 

Relationship expert Dr Seema Hingorrany has seen many cases where an ex is unable to move on, and makes things uncomfortable for their former partner. Seeking closure in a relationship is therefore very important before moving on. How do you keep from descending into becoming an object of pity or ridicule Actor Chandan Roy Sanyal offers his own story: "I was deeply in love with a girl, my former girlfriend. Their love story is said to have blossomed between 1997-99, with the relationship firmly established by their Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam days. Adele made millions with her songs of broken love, of not getting over an ex who left her heartbroken — think of Someone Like You. Sanjay was married to Zarine Khan when he and Zeenat began a much-talked-about relationship; in fact, reports at the time even stated that the duo had tied the knot.

I told him to do no such thing and maintain a dignified silence if that is possible,” Katrina had said in an interview, about the incident. But are they really What happens when an ex simply refuses to let go What happens to the other partner, who wants very much to move on Unfortunately, many celebrities do not quite set the right example when it comes to dealing with a broken relationship with dignity. After some time, I met the love of my life, who I am with now. Which is why we are still able to be friends. "(My) relationship with Salman was true.. The incident was reported to the police, reportedly by her father Krishnaraj Rai. After the Asin-Neil Nitin Mukesh relationship ended, Neil referred to his ex by saying, "Taking her name is ‘a sin’”.

We were friends and I made it clear that I didn’t want it to progress beyond that. Our ideas of life were very different. "There is going to be a vacuum after the break-up, the choice is yours how deal with it. Life is great and one should always wish (one’s exes) well and move forward. At a recent awards night, social media users pointed to Rekha’s strange way of pulling in Jaya Bachchan for a hug when Amitabh’s name was announced as one of the winners in the Best Actor category.Moving onto another partner isn’t exactly the best course of action after splitting from an ex either.” Of course, break-ups are tough, and even the most emotionally balanced among us can find the terrain difficult to navigate. After some time it got so awkward that I had to let go of the friendship too. There was a report that he hit Katrina on the sets of Ek Tha Tiger, but it was an incident both sides vehemently denied. If you immediately jump into other relationship, there are chances of being caught in a bad loop,” cautioned life coach and psychotherapist Khyati Birla.”Katrina, on her part, has always put up a dignified front. From the otherwise ever-so-dignified Rekha, to the uber macho Salman Khan, from a young star like Deepika Padukone to veterans like Om Puri and Sanjay Khan-Zeenat Aman, many are the instances where celebrity exes have provided a guidebook of "how not to behave when a relationship has ended”. 

I will apologise to the media’. In November of that year, the incident where an enraged Salman banged on the doors of Ash’s apartment in Mumbai, until his fists bled, occurred. Even our families got involved in it. Others have approached her about an abusive ex who has angered them so much that they were pushed to retaliate in kind.. I didn’t want our family ties to suffer.” She added, "After we broke up, he would call me and talk rubbish. On the receiving endWhile badly behaved exes certainly get a lot of attention for their antics, less is usually known about the state of mind of the individual who is on the receiving end. I felt so bad that I couldn’t reciprocate.” 

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